A recent statement made by TV analyst Dr. Nabiha Ali Khan, claiming that men have a “right” to look at beautiful bodies and critiquing Pakistani women for gaining weight after marriage, has sparked widespread criticism.
She controversially argued that Pakistani wives are partly to blame if their husbands admire actresses like Nora Fatehi, because “that kind of body structure” is missing locally, according to a report by the news outlet MM News.
In her comments, Dr. Nabiha said: “If a man is looking at Nora Fatehi, then it is the fault of the women here … men want beauty.” These remarks have provoked outrage, with many calling them “misogynistic” and “body-shaming.”
Critics argue that her statements reinforce unfair gender stereotypes and place unjust burden on women’s physical appearance for marital satisfaction. Rather than blaming women for natural bodily changes, like weight gain after marriage, many say she should be calling out the societal pressures that drive these unrealistic beauty ideals.
From an Islamic perspective, her argument also raises questions. Religious teachings emphasize mutual respect and modesty, rather than superficial judgments based on physical appearance.
Islamic scholars argue that physical attraction should not become a tool to shame women. According to traditional Islamic teachings, modesty (hijab) and respect for one’s spouse are key values.
By suggesting that men’s desires are an “right” and that women are failing if they don’t maintain a particular body type, Dr. Nabiha appears to be promoting a narrow and harmful standard.
As her comments continue to generate discussion, many are calling for deeper reflection on how societal beauty norms and religious values intersect in Pakistani culture.
