Among the most emotionally distressing allegations made by Pakistani digital creator Sehar Hayat against her ex-husband Sami Rasheed is one involving grief, specifically, how he responded when a close friend of Sehar’s lost her mother.
Sehar revealed that when her friend’s mother passed away, Sami failed to inform her about the tragedy. When she later confronted him over the insensitive lapse, his response, she claims, was shockingly cold.
Rather than showing remorse, Sami allegedly told her that since her own mother hadn’t died, he saw no reason to take her to pay condolences, and that he would have only done so under those circumstances.
The statement, as described by Sehar, reflects not just poor empathy but a dismissive attitude toward her emotional needs and social relationships. For many followers, this account was among the most troubling of her revelations, as it pointed to a pattern of emotional unavailability throughout their marriage.
Sehar explained that she typically avoided responding to public speculation but ultimately felt compelled to speak out when her daughter’s name began being used in the ongoing social media narrative.
She also noted that for an entire year, Sami showed no interest in their daughter’s upbringing and provided no financial support, yet began posting about missing her only after the divorce became public.
Sehar’s supporters have largely described these revelations as a portrait of sustained emotional neglect.
